When God Seems Distant

(Homily for Thirteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time, Year B)

Summer can be a beautiful time, but for some families it is not so happy. A tragedy sometimes casts a shadow over a family gathering: the remembrance of a terrible past event or, in some cases, a present family catastrophe. Last week a priest friend told me about the funeral of a fourteen-year-old boy who died in a skateboarding accident. Few things are more difficult than the funeral of a child. Beyond praying for the parents, it is hard to find words.

In today’s Gospel, Jesus responds to the sickness and death of a young girl - the daughter of a synagogue official named Jairus. Sandwiched in the middle is the account of a woman who suffered twelve years from a painful, humiliating disease. Why does God allow such suffering? Ultimately, we have only one answer - that they would come to Jesus. To know Jesus is the greatest good which the Father can offer us. Apparently it would be worth twelve years, even twelve hundred years, of suffering simply to touch his cloak. And for the synagogue official, his terrible anguish vanished like mist when he heard those words, “Talitha koum,” that is, “Little girl, I say to you, arise!”

The Scottish writer, George MacDonald, asked why God allows suffering, why he sometimes seems so distant. He said: "As cold as everything looks in winter, the sun has not forsaken us. He has only drawn away for a little, for good reasons, one of which is that we may learn that we cannot do without him." I am sure that here in Seattle, we can all identify with that quote. This past winter it seemed like the sun would never return. But it did and now we can really appreciate it. Even when Jesus seems distant, he has not forsaken us. He will return.

It is easy for us humans to believe in tragedy; it is harder to believe in good news. I saw that once when I watched a video Snow White with a four-year-old girl. It was probably a mistake. When the princess dies, the child began sobbing uncontrollably. Her mother also began to weep terribly. They did not stop even when the prince arrived to bestow his kiss. I had to pause and give them a little time to realize what had happened. Jesus is like the prince. He has already come and has put an end to death.

Our reading from the Book of Wisdom states that God did not make death. The argument is that God created the world good. Evil entered on account of human excess and the devil’s envy, but the world itself is good. Take something as simple as grapes. They are sweet and they naturally ferment to make a wonderful drink. Human excess, however, can turn wine into something destructive and ugly - but the wine itself is good. According to many environmentalists, human excess may destroy our entire planet. I don’t know if the theories are true, but I do know this: God made the world good - and part of that goodness is our human freedom. Unfortunately, we have misused our freedom and, spurred on by the devil’s evil, we have made a mess of things.

There is only one who can set things right. Only one who can reverse death. The one who says to us, “Do not be afraid; just have faith.” And then he turns to the child, “"Talitha koum,” that is, “Little girl, I say to you, arise!”


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From Archives (13th Ordinary Sunday - Year B):

2018: What Pursuit of Happiness Means
2015: Through Him Week 4: Do Not Be Afraid, Have Faith
2012: Excel in Every Respect
2009: For Your Love and Fidelity
2006: When God Seems Distant
2000: Appreciating the Ordinary

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